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On January 5, shared a clip of the bonus scene, in which Leah Messer suggested that Calvert wasn’t taking his engagement to Wehr seriously.
Shuyookh with large social media following often bring up the topic on their timelines.“We are modeling for our community the lack of marriages, single families and broken homes, that good practicing sisters may never get married.So, if you are a young girl looking at the life of a mu’min versus the life of the dominant culture, the dominant culture may seem more alluring and look to have more opportunities than the mu’min life.Denise*, a divorced mother of two boys from College Park, MD, attending the ISWA matrimonial brunch.Another troubling point brought up by Muslims across the diaspora was the desperation angle.Men and women who really want to get married often face a myriad of issues in finding a good match.
The issues are as diverse as the American Muslim community scattered all over the country.
“‘Oh my God, she wants to be married, she is so desperate – astagfirullah…’ this popular statement comes mostly from married females when a single Muslimah shares with her that she wants to be married!! it’s like, as a community, we don’t have each other’s back anymore,” laments Naeema*.
“Now, it became a taboo for a Muslimah to say ‘I want to get married’,” says Denise*. Women are being told that they are desperate, weak, and can’t control themselves.” The delaying of the American adolescence experience or the new emerging adulthood stage has also contributed to the delay in marriage, especially, with the high school experience extended by local community colleges.
We should not be surprised if we continue on this path that in another generation we end up with a community who is either not getting married or having more sisters marrying outside their faith and children who become adults who think that having children on their own is the ideal instead of in a two-parent home,” writes Heather-Laird Jackson.
“I know sisters who have started dating because they cannot take being single anymore,” said Sr.
Meeting venues and forums are few and this seems to be one major deterrent to suitable marriages.