Dating a recently widowed woman
I do know that he had a very rough time when she died because he told me he would cry until he would throw up.He hates being alone and is the type person that will not do well alone.
I am a 41 year old woman who has recently divorced her alcoholic husband of 20 years. I am doing a lot better although I will still have those sad moments when I am thinking to myself how much fun it will be to tell my wife about something that just happened and then realize I won't be able to. Every little thing has its reminder of you and I sit here tonight... Five years later we were walking down the isle together... I was going to go to a basketball game tonight (the good guys won, without me in attendance) but it turns out there was a conspiracy to keep me from going. Either you have stumbled across this because you want to find out how to help me, or I have given this to you. It still seems like yesterday that she was sitting right here with me. I know there was a lot of silence between us but now the silences just deafening. She moved in two door down from my parents house and I told her that first day that I would marry her and spend the rest of our lives together. Your world just comes crashing down,you lose your life,you lose everything that EVER MATTERED to you. I was recently widowed on Xmas eve 2015 with out warning when my beloved husband collapsed with chest pain, he was a very healthy 54yrs. I stumbled onto this web site while searching for sites on being recently widowed. But with the Lords help and the support of family and friends, I pray that the lost to our family and the huge hole in my heart will begin to heal. Myself and my son watched helpless while the first responders worked and shocked him for over a hr before the Ambulance could get to us.. My husband has been my best friend for over 20 years. He was a coal-miner and an avid hunter, especially turkey and... My prayers and sympathy goes out to anyone who has had to go through... I am lost without him and miss him so much, I still sleep on the couch where I was sleeping before he died so I could get up and help him when he needed it, he was sleeping in a hospital bed. I guess I just feel like I am still swimming in sadness and grief and everyone else has... I suffer from severe depression, anxiety, and ptsd. I know the first couple of weeks I was so afraid that I would forget her; I couldn’t remember her face, I couldn’t remember her voice, I couldn’t remember any happy times.
These 7 months had been a heart-breaking and lonely journey for me. But now im back home i cant shake this OVER whelming feeling of utter loneness....i feeling like a huge tidal wave has knocked me down on my butt :( My husband was Navy and passed away august 6th of 2014 and since then life has been a nightmare.
The next moment, I was a lost, scared, and broken widow. You never know when life will change My wife of over 30 yrs died suddenly about six weeks ago.
since the love of my life died before we could make it to the hospital. "They're like this," her youngest brother told her, waving his hand up and down, "but you guys are like this --" a steady, level sweep. I have three children ages 10 5 and 18 months two boys and a girl. He was gorgeous, smart, funny, sexy, and extremely healthy.
She was basically brain dead for the last 6 months of her life.
He has also told me that there were times in their marriage when they had talked about divorce but when she got sick he of course stayed with her.
We had little social life (working too hard) and now when I do things I so much want to tell her about them . I have 45 days widowed and have come to the understanding that I am no longer excepted into my in-laws family.